Well I must say, I've had a nice quiet evening at the HoEs (My roommate and I call our home the Houseman Estate AKA: HoEs). On my return home from my parents I stopped and decided to pick up a bottle of wine....well, two bottles, they were on sale. I've been sipping on my wine reading People and doing the crossword. I honestly like doing the People crossword. It's easy enough to do, and if you get stumped you can google the clues :o)
There were two articles in this edition of People that sparked my interest. One being about the Kardashian/Humphries split and the other one being about a woman who was married to a serial killer for 13 years, and didn't even know it.
Now, I know everyone is over the Kardashian drama. I know that I am, but I do have to throw my two cents in. I don't understand why some people think that divorce is an easy way out? I understand that situations happen in a marriage, and it comes to an agreement that a divorce would be the best possible choice. I think that a lot of people are too quick to jump into marriage. Marriage is not to be entered into lightly. I'm not just talking about Kim Kardashian I'm talking about every woman, or man out there who just wanted to get married and it didn't matter to who. You can't be happy pretending to be happy, and trying to convince yourself that this is the person you want to be with. Believe me, I did it for 7 months. I wanted to get married. I wanted to be married. I wanted to be someone's wife. The best thing about Kyle was that he was going to give me what I wanted. I spent the better part of the last three months of my time with him convincing myself I could be happy with him; convincing myself I could be happy being married to him. I felt horribly when I ended things with him. For breaking his heart, but I had to do what was right for me, and pretending to be happy wasn't working anymore.
I just think that when you take a vow infront of God and everyone you should mean it. When you say "I Do" it's not for the foreseeable future, or until it gets too tough for you to handle. It's for life. No one ever said that marriage is easy, and that's something I would do well to remember too.
The article I read about the woman who was married to the Green river serial killer actually scares me a little bit. This woman was married to this man for 13 years, and she had no clue what he was out doing. Over the course of 20 years he's responsible for the deaths of over 70 women (although he only confessed to 49 of them). It scares me to know that no matter how long you know someone for, you never really know the real person. I can only imagine how devastated she was when she found out the love of her life was a serial killer. It scares me to the point of not wanting to get to know anyone else. You don't know what people are capable of, and that's scary.
Well, it seems my wine is gone, and my people crossword is half completed. Until tomorrow kitty cats...
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